Emotional Rape
If ever a person wanna connect with a second person, the only thing they can do is to wait for a time that the other person is ready for that connection. It is absolutely impossible to force the connection! Identically, if you wanna connect with me, you can only wait for the time that I am ready to connect with you. We both must totally feel it.
99% of the time I guarantee that I/you wanna be connected with you/me! However when it gets to that 1%, you/I only can wait for me/you to recover. I believe this is the principle of every emotional interaction.
Just hold your breath, wait, sometimes close your eyes, but still feel, and definitely show, all the love that is making your heart dance......... I promise the other person will recover quickly and there will be a very cheerful moment right around the corner.